How To Approach Women
When someone asks me how to deal with women, I am always surprised with my answer. It is „quickly and without hesitation.“ They always look baffled. They ask me to give advice or pointers to add to that and I tell them that's all they really need.
When you approach a woman quickly, you will not have much time to think about what you are going to say or do. That is a good thing. Why? Because the more you think about what you are going to say or do when approaching a woman, you will most certainly you and more than likely tell you about it. You get yourself out too psyched to be able to function as a real human being.
When you see a girl, you have to be natural. I do not use the words „natural act“ because it is a stupid idea, (not to mention an oxymoron).
Once you have approached the woman, to say the first thing that comes to mind. If you can not think of anything, or your mind is empty of nervousness, just say a cliffhanger.
A cliffhanger is a sentence that ends abruptly and calls on the other party to speak for the rest of your sentence. An example would be „I noticed something really beautiful about you …“ And wait for his answer. When she pauses, and finally said „what?“ Who gives you enough time to find what you want to say to her beautiful you find her. Something like eyes, clothes, jewelry, or something like that. Try to stay away from sexual comments based, because it taught him the only thing on your mind. Then you will be the last thing on his own.
Other cliffhangers can relate to what's happening around you or with her. Try using cliffhangers that open-ended questions so that you do not just get one word answers. You can say things like: „It's only a drink of research“ or „I see that you are on the way done with this book you are reading, what is it?“ Or „C It is a beautiful tan you, you just come back from a trip? “
All that, with luck, will eventually lead to a conversation. It is this conversation that you want. Women enjoy the conversation. They are NOT love interrogation. Questions such as „Where are you from?“ Or „What's your sign?“ Or „Can I buy you a drink“ is seen more as pick up the lines and women down the walls as soon as you say.
Conversation may be natural and smooth. Think of it as talking to your best friend. Start a conversation and cling to their every word. Not in a sick puppy dog way, but in a genuine interest in his conversation and not to think what she looks like naked.
When you see that women are interested in them, the conversation will be more open and smooth. Try to get something that aroused his interest and when you do, hang on to it. Building this relationship in two minutes.
Another type, after about two minutes, shake hands and introductions. This will not only bring down their defences, (it is a subconscious thing, once you have presented and shook hands with someone, they are no longer a stranger), but you also made physical contact. And it's going to make a few more at ease with you.
On the whole, you do not have your routine practice before approaching a woman. Once you have something in practice, it will come off as rehearsed. See the woman through this right. Be yourself. Be funny, romantic or any other quality comes naturally to you. The rest will take care of itself.